As children we all witness certain circumstances and situations that others around us may face. I can remember being a child and being able to recognize that my cousin was being isolated by her mother. She had five other siblings at the time and often times felt as though she was the “outcast” and didn’t fit in with her sisters and brothers. She also felt that her mother did not love her as much as the others and she felt alone. As a result of her feeling this way as a child and not receiving any help in this area, she still feels to this day that she is not a loved and valuable member in her family. She separates herself from family functions and outings and drowns herself in her work instead of focusing on other important factors in life. The way in which a child feels will affect the way in which they view life as an adult. When children face such stressors, they are vulnerable and cannot fully understand why things happen the way they do.
Since the start of the war I have been concerned about the stresses that children from that region face. Known stressors that affect the life of children in Afghanistan are military violence, possibility of post traumatic stress, and trauma. War affects us all but it affects children more. Often time’s children witness this violence and may seem powerless to what can be done to save and protect their family. War is a major factor and there must be some plans set in place to find possible solutions to such a horrible problem of children. Soldiers are trying to limit the amount of violence that children experience but cannot fully prevent such stressors from occurring.
ScienceDaily (2009 June 24). Afghani Children Suffering From Post-Traumatic Stress. Retrieved on November 22, 2012, from www.sciencedaily.com.